{"id":2916,"date":"2025-06-18T11:52:26","date_gmt":"2025-06-18T09:52:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fist.club\/fisting-for-beginners\/"},"modified":"2026-06-08T09:44:40","modified_gmt":"2026-06-08T07:44:40","slug":"fisting-for-beginners","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/fist.club\/en\/fisting-for-beginners\/","title":{"rendered":"Fisting for Beginners"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-spacer stk-block-spacer stk--no-padding stk-block stk-5d51025\" data-block-id=\"5d51025\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"fisting-for-beginners-a-guide-to-your-first-time\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Fisting for Beginners: A Guide to Your First Time<\/h2>\n\n\n\n\n\n<p>Fisting is intense \u2013 physically and emotionally. People who try it for the first time after watching nothing but a few clips either hurt themselves or give up disappointed. What takes three minutes in a video takes hours in reality \u2013 porn is about as realistic a guide to fisting as cookery shows are to a family dinner. This guide is different: no metaphors, no gushing, just what you really need to know before you start. Written from the experience of workshops and a community that has lived this topic for years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>1. What fisting is \u2013 and what it isn&#8217;t<\/h2>\r\n\r\n<p>Anal (or vaginal) fisting means slowly inserting a hand at least up to the wrist into the anus or vagina. The word &#8220;fist&#8221; is misleading: the clenched fist only comes into play once the hand is already inside. As you enter, you shape your hand into a narrow wedge \u2013 the so-called duck&#8217;s-beak position \u2013 not into a fist.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<p>What fisting is not:<\/p>\r\n<ul>\r\n<li>Not anal sex, just with more volume<\/li>\r\n<li>Not something you do spontaneously on a first date<\/li>\r\n<li>Not something to put yourself through alone, without preparation<\/li>\r\n<\/ul>\r\n\r\n<p>Set aside at least two to three hours for your first time. Maybe 15 minutes of that is actual penetration. The rest is warming up, taking your time and aftercare. Anyone in a hurry hasn&#8217;t understood the point.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<p>A detailed explanation of the key terms \u2013 from &#8220;fister&#8221; to &#8220;fistee&#8221;, &#8220;bottom&#8221;, &#8220;top&#8221; and &#8220;subspace&#8221; \u2013 is in our <a href=\"https:\/\/fist.club\/en\/fisting-glossary-terminology\/\">fisting glossary<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<h2>2. Trust, communication, patience: the three foundations<\/h2>\r\n\r\n<h3>2.1 Choosing the right partner<\/h3>\r\n\r\n<p>Don&#8217;t pick the hottest guy on Grindr for your first time. Pick someone you can still talk to afterwards and who has experience. The most attractive guy and the most patient one are rarely the same person \u2013 for a first time, patience wins. Fisting puts many bottoms into a state that has nothing to do with everyday awareness \u2013 almost trance-like, sometimes with tears or laughter. If the person on the giving side isn&#8217;t alert and attuned, harm comes quickly.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<p>For your first time it&#8217;s also worth visiting one of our <a href=\"https:\/\/fist.club\/en\/fisting-school-workshops-seminars\/\">workshops or seminars<\/a> \u2013 there you&#8217;ll meet people who know what they&#8217;re doing, and you can ask questions you couldn&#8217;t ask anywhere else.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<p>A participant from one of our seminars in Berlin \u2013 let&#8217;s call him Thomas \u2013 once described it like this: he&#8217;d spent months watching clips and was convinced the whole hand had to go in the first time. At the workshop he realised most bottoms in those videos have been doing this for years, and that the comparison is complete nonsense. His first time afterwards went completely differently \u2013 with three fingers, plenty of time and a break in between. &#8220;If I&#8217;d known beforehand that that already counts, I&#8217;d have saved myself a lot of frustration.&#8221; That&#8217;s exactly what the workshops are for.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<h3>2.2 Agreeing on a safeword<\/h3>\r\n\r\n<p>&#8220;No&#8221; doesn&#8217;t work reliably in fisting, because many bottoms reflexively say &#8220;no&#8221; during a session without really wanting to stop. Use something unambiguous: &#8220;red card&#8221;, &#8220;stopwatch&#8221;, &#8220;pause&#8221; \u2013 whatever, as long as it isn&#8217;t a word that might otherwise come up in play. Choosing &#8220;more&#8221; or &#8220;go on&#8221; as a safeword has already led to misunderstandings nobody wanted. When the safeword comes, you stop immediately. No discussion, no &#8220;just a bit more&#8221;.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<h3>2.3 Patience as a technical requirement<\/h3>\r\n\r\n<p>If your partner starts pushing because &#8220;it really has to go in now&#8221;, stop. The tissue in the anus stretches, but only under zero pressure. Pressure triggers clenching, clenching prevents stretching. Anyone who doesn&#8217;t grasp that has no business here. This rule isn&#8217;t poetic \u2013 it&#8217;s physiological.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<h2>3. Hygiene and preparation for fisting<\/h2>\r\n\r\n<p>There&#8217;s a dedicated, more detailed article under <a href=\"https:\/\/fist.club\/en\/hygiene-preparation\/\">Hygiene &amp; Preparation<\/a>. Here are the key points:<\/p>\r\n\r\n<h3>3.1 Eating and drinking beforehand<\/h3>\r\n\r\n<p>You should stop eating three to four hours before fisting. Avoid strongly gas-forming or spicy food the day before. One hour before: first rinse.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<h3>3.2 Anal douching step by step<\/h3>\r\n\r\n<p>A standard rubber enema bulb (from the chemist, around \u00a38\u201315) is perfectly enough for the first few times. Investing in a shower douche attachment only pays off once you&#8217;re doing this regularly.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<p>How the rinse works:<\/p>\r\n<ol>\r\n<li>200\u2013400 ml of lukewarm tap water in the bulb<\/li>\r\n<li>Insert the tip, let the water in, hold briefly, expel<\/li>\r\n<li>Repeat until the water comes back clear \u2013 usually after three to five rounds<\/li>\r\n<\/ol>\r\n\r\n<p>Don&#8217;t do it too aggressively. Too much water, too hot or too cold irritates the bowel lining, and an irritated bowel is more sensitive during fisting. Anyone who rinses for an hour before fisting has more problems afterwards, not fewer.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<h3>3.3 Fingernails and jewellery<\/h3>\r\n\r\n<p>The most important safety rules are the most boring: fingernails short, filed and smooth. A single rough edge tears the bowel lining, and these very micro-tears are the main route by which someone catches hepatitis C while fisting. Details in the article <a href=\"https:\/\/fist.club\/en\/fisting-hepatitis\/\">Fisting and Hepatitis<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<p>Rings, bracelets, watches \u2013 all off. The engagement ring too. If your hand is inside and your partner clenches, the ring won&#8217;t come back off easily.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<h3>3.4 The setting<\/h3>\r\n\r\n<p>What you need:<\/p>\r\n<ul>\r\n<li>A cover (a large towel or an incontinence pad from the chemist)<\/li>\r\n<li>At least 200 ml of lube or a bowl of mixed powder gel<\/li>\r\n<li>Disposable gloves (nitrile is tougher than latex)<\/li>\r\n<li>Water and juice within reach \u2013 fisting dehydrates you more than most people think<\/li>\r\n<li>Something warm for after the session: a blanket, maybe a small plug<\/li>\r\n<\/ul>\r\n\r\n<p>Keep the room warm. If the bottom gets cold, they get goosebumps, and goosebumps mean tension throughout the body, including the sphincter. A draughty room has ruined more sessions than any failed technique.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<h2>4. Lube for fisting: why the choice decides everything<\/h2>\r\n\r\n<p>The anus produces no lubricant of its own. With a fist over an area about the size of a tangerine, we&#8217;re talking about massive friction. Too little or the wrong lube is the second most common cause of injury, right after &#8220;too fast&#8221;.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<h3>4.1 Water-based or silicone-based?<\/h3>\r\n\r\n<table>\r\n<thead>\r\n<tr><th>Property<\/th><th>Water-based<\/th><th>Silicone-based<\/th><\/tr>\r\n<\/thead>\r\n<tbody>\r\n<tr><td>Compatible with latex gloves<\/td><td>Yes<\/td><td>No<\/td><\/tr>\r\n<tr><td>Compatible with silicone toys<\/td><td>Yes<\/td><td>No<\/td><\/tr>\r\n<tr><td>Dries out<\/td><td>Yes, after 20\u201330 min<\/td><td>Practically never<\/td><\/tr>\r\n<tr><td>Washes off with water<\/td><td>Instantly<\/td><td>Difficult<\/td><\/tr>\r\n<tr><td>Recommended for fisting beginners<\/td><td>Yes<\/td><td>Only without latex<\/td><\/tr>\r\n<\/tbody>\r\n<\/table>\r\n\r\n<p>Rule of thumb: as long as you&#8217;re wearing latex gloves \u2013 and you should be \u2013 stick to water-based lube. Silicone destroys latex within minutes; the glove turns brittle or sticky, you don&#8217;t notice, and suddenly you&#8217;ve got direct skin contact.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<h3>4.2 Powder lube: the scene standard<\/h3>\r\n\r\n<p>If you want to fist regularly, there&#8217;s no getting around powder lube. It&#8217;s a highly concentrated polymer that you mix with water into a gel yourself. From one pack you get two to five litres of gel depending on concentration \u2013 for one session you&#8217;ll easily need 200\u2013500 ml.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<p>Various powder lubes are common in the scene, such as <strong>FFUCK Dust<\/strong>. Mix the powder with water, done. Gels like these stay slippery extremely long, are compatible with latex and nitrile gloves, and wash out with water.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<p>Practical tip: mix the gel at least 30 minutes before the session. It thickens as it stands and only then becomes properly viscous. Freshly mixed powder gel is still too watery.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<h3>4.3 How much is enough?<\/h3>\r\n\r\n<p>The honest answer: plan for double what you think you&#8217;ll need. If you have to re-apply every two minutes, you&#8217;ve used too little. If you&#8217;ve got half a bottle left at the end of the session, you&#8217;ve hit roughly the right amount. Lube is like a holiday budget: people fundamentally underestimate how much they&#8217;ll need.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<h2>5. The right position for your first time<\/h2>\r\n\r\n<p>There&#8217;s no single perfect position. What works for a first time depends on body type, back health and how well you can communicate during it. Here are the five most important positions with their pros and cons:<\/p>\r\n\r\n<table>\r\n<thead>\r\n<tr><th>Position<\/th><th>Description<\/th><th>Strengths<\/th><th>Weaknesses<\/th><\/tr>\r\n<\/thead>\r\n<tbody>\r\n<tr><td><strong>On the back with a pillow<\/strong><\/td><td>Bottom lies on their back, pillow under the pelvis, knees bent<\/td><td>Best eye contact, bottom can fully relax, fister sees everything<\/td><td>Back fatigue in longer sessions<\/td><\/tr>\r\n<tr><td><strong>On the side<\/strong><\/td><td>Bottom on their side, upper leg drawn up<\/td><td>Gentle on the back, calm position for long sessions<\/td><td>Limited eye contact<\/td><\/tr>\r\n<tr><td><strong>On all fours<\/strong><\/td><td>Bottom kneels, upper body supported<\/td><td>Active angle, good if the bottom wants to push back<\/td><td>Harder for beginners \u2013 bottom can relax less well, the sigmoid angle is different<\/td><\/tr>\r\n<tr><td><strong>Squatting \/ riding<\/strong><\/td><td>Bottom squats or rides on the hand<\/td><td>Bottom fully controls pace and depth<\/td><td>Tiring for the legs, more for the experienced<\/td><\/tr>\r\n<tr><td><strong>Sling<\/strong><\/td><td>Bottom lies in a suspended sling<\/td><td>Optimal angle, very relaxing, ideal for long sessions<\/td><td>Requires the relevant equipment<\/td><\/tr>\r\n<\/tbody>\r\n<\/table>\r\n\r\n<p><strong>Our recommendation for your first time:<\/strong> on the back with a pillow under the pelvis. Full stop. Try out what feels good later. Anyone who attempts their first time on all fours straight away struggles with the less favourable angle to the sigmoid and often overlooks that the bottom is more tense than necessary.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<p>An experienced bottom can tell you after a few sessions which position suits their body best \u2013 anatomy varies. That&#8217;s one of the things you only learn by trying.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<h2>6. Step-by-step guide: how your first fisting goes<\/h2>\r\n\r\n<h3>6.1 Warming up (20\u201340 minutes)<\/h3>\r\n\r\n<p>This is where the session is decided. Anyone who cuts the warm-up short won&#8217;t reach the goal.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<p>Order:<\/p>\r\n<ol>\r\n<li><strong>5\u201310 minutes<\/strong> of external stimulation \u2013 hand outside, stroking, massage. The bottom should relax, not lie there already tense with anticipation.<\/li>\r\n<li><strong>5\u201310 minutes<\/strong> with one or two fingers, plenty of lube, very slowly.<\/li>\r\n<li><strong>5\u201310 minutes<\/strong> three fingers, then four. Between each step wait at least two or three minutes to see whether the bottom stays with it.<\/li>\r\n<\/ol>\r\n\r\n<p>If you feel resistance moving from three to four fingers, stay at three. If the bottom starts talking (&#8220;it won&#8217;t work&#8221;, &#8220;wait&#8221;), stay still and breathe with them.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<h3>6.2 Four fingers and thumb: the duck&#8217;s-beak position<\/h3>\r\n\r\n<p>Once four fingers are well inside, you tuck the thumb under and bring all five fingertips together. The hand now looks like a duck&#8217;s beak \u2013 narrow, pointed, conical. That&#8217;s how it slides further in.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<p>The widest point of your hand is the knuckles. When you get there, it gets tight. This is the point where most beginners give up. Three tips:<\/p>\r\n<ul>\r\n<li><strong>Let them breathe.<\/strong> Tell the bottom: &#8220;Breathe in deep, relax as you breathe out.&#8221; On the out-breath the pelvic muscles are at their loosest.<\/li>\r\n<li><strong>Don&#8217;t push, wait.<\/strong> The body more or less draws the hand in when the sphincter opens. Waiting for that second is an art.<\/li>\r\n<li><strong>If it doesn&#8217;t happen today, it was still a good session.<\/strong> It often works the second time \u2013 sometimes not the first. Fisting isn&#8217;t a sprint with a finish-line photo; it&#8217;s more like sourdough: it takes what it takes.<\/li>\r\n<\/ul>\r\n\r\n<h3>6.3 Forming the fist \u2013 inside, never outside<\/h3>\r\n\r\n<p>Once the hand is in up to the wrist, you can slowly curl the fingers in. Thumb under the fingers, then form the fist very gradually. This happens inside the body, not before. A pre-clenched fist you couldn&#8217;t get in without tearing something.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<h3>6.4 Movement \u2013 if at all<\/h3>\r\n\r\n<p>Beginners should make almost no movement at all the first time. Leave the hand inside, light pressure perhaps, small turns of the wrist. Thrusting, pumping, pushing \u2013 all for later. The first time, the feeling of being filled is enough for intense sensation.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<p>If you eventually want more \u2013 deep fisting, double fisting, rosebud \u2013 you&#8217;ll find the next step in our article <a href=\"https:\/\/fist.club\/en\/advanced-fisting\/\">Fisting for the Advanced<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<h2>7. What to do when it doesn&#8217;t work? Common problems on your first fisting<\/h2>\r\n\r\n<p><strong>&#8220;It just won&#8217;t get past the knuckles.&#8221;<\/strong> That&#8217;s normal the first time. Take a break, breathe together, start again with three fingers. It often works after a two-minute pause, sometimes only next time. A regular at our workshops \u2013 let&#8217;s call him Markus \u2013 trained every week for over six weeks and still got stuck at the knuckles every time. At the seventh session, quite unspectacularly on a Sunday afternoon, it was suddenly there. His takeaway: it happens when the body is ready, not when the head wants it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<p><strong>&#8220;I suddenly need the toilet.&#8221;<\/strong> That&#8217;s normal too. The pressure in the bowel triggers the natural reflex. If your bottom is experienced, the feeling passes after a short pause. If not: out briefly, break, maybe a quick trip to the loo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<p><strong>&#8220;I can&#8217;t relax.&#8221;<\/strong> Stress, pressure, the wrong mood. You&#8217;re not in the wrong hobby, but today isn&#8217;t the day. Stop, watch Netflix, try again next week.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<p><strong>&#8220;It hurts.&#8221;<\/strong> Pain is always a stop signal. Not &#8220;try again&#8221;, not &#8220;breathe through it and carry on&#8221;. Stop. If it burns, the tissue is usually already irritated. Carrying on anyway risks tears.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<p><strong>&#8220;There&#8217;s blood.&#8221;<\/strong> Small amounts of bright blood from minor haemorrhoids are often harmless. With dark blood, larger amounts or pain: stop immediately and see a proctologist in the next few days. With very heavy bleeding, go to A&amp;E.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<h2>8. Aftercare in fisting: what comes after play<\/h2>\r\n\r\n<h3>8.1 Removing the hand, slowly<\/h3>\r\n\r\n<p>The hand is removed the same way it went in: shaped into a cone, slowly, ideally as the bottom breathes out. Don&#8217;t pull it out abruptly \u2013 that hurts and can overstretch the sphincter.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<h3>8.2 Physical aftercare<\/h3>\r\n\r\n<ul>\r\n<li>Let the bottom lie down, maybe insert a small plug so the anus retracts gradually rather than snapping shut<\/li>\r\n<li>Warm tea or juice \u2013 circulation often drops<\/li>\r\n<li>Don&#8217;t head straight to the toilet, but within 30 minutes check on the loo whether lube comes out (which is normal)<\/li>\r\n<li>No penetrative sex for 24\u201348 hours, the anus needs time<\/li>\r\n<\/ul>\r\n\r\n<h3>8.3 Emotional aftercare<\/h3>\r\n\r\n<p>Many bottoms experience an emotional low after a session \u2013 that comes from falling endorphins. Tears, sudden sadness, a feeling of emptiness are normal. Don&#8217;t ignore it, catch it: cuddling, a blanket, leaning on each other. Anyone driving home alone should phone their partner again briefly that evening.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<p>The giving partner sometimes experiences the same \u2013 &#8220;top drop&#8221;. Closeness and talking about what just happened help there too.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<h3>8.4 When to see a doctor<\/h3>\r\n\r\n<ul>\r\n<li>Persistent pain lasting more than 24 hours<\/li>\r\n<li>Heavy or persistent bleeding<\/li>\r\n<li>Fever in the following days<\/li>\r\n<li>Trouble holding stool that doesn&#8217;t pass after a few hours<\/li>\r\n<li>Unusual discharge or smell<\/li>\r\n<\/ul>\r\n\r\n<p>See a proctologist or a GP you trust. As a gay man in Berlin, Munich, Hamburg, Frankfurt or Cologne, you&#8217;ll find experienced, non-judgemental doctors through the checkpoints of the local AIDS service organisations.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<h2>9. Risks in fisting \u2013 and how to minimise them<\/h2>\r\n\r\n<p>We cover the individual topics in detail in our articles <a href=\"https:\/\/fist.club\/en\/safer-fisting-general-tips\/\">Safer Fisting<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/fist.club\/en\/fisting-hiv\/\">Fisting &amp; HIV<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/fist.club\/en\/fisting-hepatitis\/\">Fisting &amp; Hepatitis<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/fist.club\/en\/fisting-stis\/\">Fisting &amp; STIs<\/a>. Here are the core risks at a glance:<\/p>\r\n\r\n<p><strong>Tears in the bowel lining.<\/strong> The most common injury. Avoidable through short nails, plenty of lube, a slow pace. Small tears heal in 3\u20135 days.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<p><strong>Infections (HIV, hepatitis B, hepatitis C, other STIs).<\/strong> Pathogens can enter through micro-tears. Protective measures: always gloves, separate lube containers per partner, PrEP if at risk of HIV, vaccination against hepatitis A and B. In the UK, PrEP and PEP are free on the NHS through sexual health clinics, and the hepatitis A\/B vaccination is free for higher-risk groups including MSM. Hepatitis C is a particular issue in fisting, because transmission via tiny amounts of blood on the glove or in shared lube is possible.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<p><strong>Overstretching of the sphincter.<\/strong> Not an issue in beginner sessions, but it becomes relevant with frequent play involving large toys or double fisting. Anyone who fists once a month usually has no problems with it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<p><strong>Long-term effects.<\/strong> A large survey of over 21,000 gay and bisexual men found an association between very frequent or extreme anal play \u2013 including fisting \u2013 and higher rates of faecal incontinence. Important here: the association is dose-dependent (frequency, force, size), and causation isn&#8217;t scientifically settled, because the data is thin and different practices overlap. With moderate fisting the risk is low. Anyone who notices marked sphincter weakness should see a proctologist and possibly do pelvic-floor training.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<h2>10. Myths about fisting \u2013 and what&#8217;s really true<\/h2>\r\n\r\n<p>More half-knowledge than fact circulates around fisting. We clear up the most common myths:<\/p>\r\n\r\n<table>\r\n<thead>\r\n<tr><th>Myth<\/th><th>What&#8217;s really true<\/th><\/tr>\r\n<\/thead>\r\n<tbody>\r\n<tr><td>&#8220;Fisting inevitably makes you incontinent.&#8221;<\/td><td>A survey of over 21,000 MSM found higher incontinence rates with very frequent or extreme play, but causation isn&#8217;t conclusively proven. With moderate fisting (1\u20132 times a week, sensible build-up) no significant effects show up. Pelvic-floor training works preventively.<\/td><\/tr>\r\n<tr><td>&#8220;You have to be naturally extremely stretchy.&#8221;<\/td><td>False. The anus is a muscle and responds to training. Anyone who prepares consistently for three months can usually take a hand. It&#8217;s about practice, not genetics.<\/td><\/tr>\r\n<tr><td>&#8220;Fisting always hurts.&#8221;<\/td><td>With proper preparation, enough lube and patience, no. You feel intense stretching \u2013 that&#8217;s not the same as pain. Pain is always a sign something&#8217;s going wrong.<\/td><\/tr>\r\n<tr><td>&#8220;Once stretched, always loose.&#8221;<\/td><td>False. The tissue retracts. It would be different with permanent, extreme sessions over years \u2013 but that&#8217;s not the beginner scenario.<\/td><\/tr>\r\n<tr><td>&#8220;Poppers are necessary for fisting.&#8221;<\/td><td>No. They can help relaxation but aren&#8217;t a must. Anyone with heart problems or certain eye conditions (e.g. glaucoma) should leave them alone. Never combine with erectile-dysfunction medication.<\/td><\/tr>\r\n<tr><td>&#8220;Fisting is only for gay men.&#8221;<\/td><td>False. Vaginal and anal fisting is practised by all genders and orientations. The scene in Germany is heavily MSM-shaped, though, which is why most workshops and communities are concentrated there.<\/td><\/tr>\r\n<tr><td>&#8220;Self-fisting is more dangerous than with a partner.&#8221;<\/td><td>False as a blanket statement. Self-fisting has the disadvantage of a worse angle, but the advantage of full control over pace and depth. For beginners it&#8217;s still easier with a partner.<\/td><\/tr>\r\n<tr><td>&#8220;It&#8217;s the same as fisting with big dildos.&#8221;<\/td><td>False. A dildo is rigid, a hand adapts. Toys are good preparation but don&#8217;t replace the hand.<\/td><\/tr>\r\n<tr><td>&#8220;Anyone who fists has a drug problem.&#8221;<\/td><td>A myth from tabloid coverage. In the community the topic of chems is handled in a very nuanced way \u2013 see our <a href=\"https:\/\/fist.club\/en\/testimonials-stories\/\">experience reports<\/a>.<\/td><\/tr>\r\n<tr><td>&#8220;Nothing can go wrong in fisting because the body stretches.&#8221;<\/td><td>False. Tears, haemorrhoid injuries and, in rare cases, perforations are real. That&#8217;s what this whole article is for: safety doesn&#8217;t take care of itself.<\/td><\/tr>\r\n<\/tbody>\r\n<\/table>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-spacer stk-block-spacer stk--no-padding stk-block stk-bc0ce6f\" data-block-id=\"bc0ce6f\"><style>.stk-bc0ce6f {height:100px !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-bc0ce6f {height:80px !important;}}<\/style><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-ab0130f\" id=\"faq\" data-block-id=\"ab0130f\"><style>.stk-ab0130f {margin-bottom:0px !important;}.stk-ab0130f .stk-block-heading__text{line-height:1.2em !important;}<\/style><h2 class=\"stk-block-heading__text has-text-align-center\">FAQ<\/h2><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-spacer stk-block-spacer stk--no-padding stk-block stk-cdbf890\" data-block-id=\"cdbf890\"><style>.stk-cdbf890 {height:70px !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-cdbf890 {height:50px !important;}}<\/style><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-columns stk-block-columns stk-block stk-a109e3a\" data-block-id=\"a109e3a\"><style>.stk-a109e3a .stk--block-align-a109e3a{align-items:center !important;}.stk-a109e3a {margin-bottom:0px !important;}.stk-a109e3a-column{--stk-column-gap:35px !important;row-gap:35px !important;}<\/style><div class=\"stk-row stk-inner-blocks stk--block-align-a109e3a stk-block-content stk-content-align stk-a109e3a-column\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-column stk-block-column stk-column stk-block stk-84a2cb9\" data-v=\"4\" data-block-id=\"84a2cb9\"><style>.stk-84a2cb9-container{margin-top:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:0px !important;}<\/style><div class=\"stk-column-wrapper stk-block-column__content stk-container stk-84a2cb9-container stk--no-background stk--no-padding\"><div class=\"stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks stk-84a2cb9-inner-blocks\">\n<details class=\"wp-block-stackable-accordion stk-block-accordion stk-inner-blocks stk-block-content stk--single-open stk-block stk-b6144e7\" data-block-id=\"b6144e7\"><style>.stk-b6144e7 {margin-bottom:35px !important;}<\/style>\n<summary class=\"wp-block-stackable-column stk-block-column stk-column stk-block stk-d7687eb stk--container-small stk-block-accordion__heading\" data-v=\"4\" data-block-id=\"d7687eb\"><style>.stk-d7687eb-container{margin-top:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:0px !important;padding-top:25px !important;padding-right:25px !important;padding-bottom:25px !important;padding-left:25px !important;}.stk-d7687eb {box-shadow:0px 5px 5px 0px #b0b5c11a !important;border-style:solid !important;border-color:var(--theme-palette-color-5, #edeff2) !important;}<\/style><div class=\"stk-column-wrapper stk-block-column__content stk-container stk-d7687eb-container stk--no-background stk--no-padding\"><div class=\"stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks stk-d7687eb-inner-blocks\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-label stk-block-icon-label stk-block stk-ead55b7\" data-block-id=\"ead55b7\"><div class=\"stk-row stk-inner-blocks stk-block-content\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-a77a31b\" id=\"does-fisting-hurt\" data-block-id=\"a77a31b\"><style>.stk-a77a31b .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:17px !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-a77a31b .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:17px !important;}}<\/style><h5 class=\"stk-block-heading__text\">Does fisting hurt?<\/h5><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon stk-block-icon stk-block stk-3c44900\" data-block-id=\"3c44900\"><style>.stk-3c44900 .stk--svg-wrapper .stk--inner-svg svg:last-child{height:13px !important;width:13px !important;}.stk-3c44900 .stk--svg-wrapper .stk--inner-svg svg:last-child, .stk-3c44900 .stk--svg-wrapper .stk--inner-svg svg:last-child :is(g, path, rect, polygon, ellipse){fill:var(--theme-palette-color-4, #111518) !important;}<\/style><span class=\"stk--svg-wrapper\"><div class=\"stk--inner-svg\"><svg style=\"height:0;width:0\"><defs><linearGradient id=\"linear-gradient-3c44900\" x1=\"0\" x2=\"100%\" y1=\"0\" y2=\"0\"><stop offset=\"0%\" style=\"stop-opacity:1;stop-color:var(--linear-gradient-3-c-44900-color-1)\"><\/stop><stop offset=\"100%\" style=\"stop-opacity:1;stop-color:var(--linear-gradient-3-c-44900-color-2)\"><\/stop><\/linearGradient><\/defs><\/svg><svg data-prefix=\"fas\" data-icon=\"chevron-down\" class=\"svg-inline--fa fa-chevron-down fa-w-14\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 448 512\" aria-hidden=\"true\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\"><path fill=\"currentColor\" d=\"M207.029 381.476L12.686 187.132c-9.373-9.373-9.373-24.569 0-33.941l22.667-22.667c9.357-9.357 24.522-9.375 33.901-.04L224 284.505l154.745-154.021c9.379-9.335 24.544-9.317 33.901.04l22.667 22.667c9.373 9.373 9.373 24.569 0 33.941L240.971 381.476c-9.373 9.372-24.569 9.372-33.942 0z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/div><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><\/summary>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-column stk-block-column stk-column stk-block stk-d0d419d stk-block-accordion__content\" data-v=\"4\" data-block-id=\"d0d419d\"><style>.stk-d0d419d-container{margin-top:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:0px !important;padding-top:35px !important;padding-right:35px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:35px !important;}<\/style><div class=\"stk-column-wrapper stk-block-column__content stk-container stk-d0d419d-container stk--no-background stk--no-padding\"><div class=\"stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks stk-d0d419d-inner-blocks\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Done right, no. You feel pressure and intense stretching, which can be demanding, but it shouldn&#8217;t hurt. If it hurts, something&#8217;s wrong \u2013 pace, lube or preparation.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<\/details>\n\n\n\n<details class=\"wp-block-stackable-accordion stk-block-accordion stk-inner-blocks stk-block-content stk--single-open stk-block stk-5f1965a\" data-block-id=\"5f1965a\"><style>.stk-5f1965a {margin-bottom:35px !important;}<\/style>\n<summary class=\"wp-block-stackable-column stk-block-column stk-column stk-block stk-99725d9 stk--container-small stk-block-accordion__heading\" data-v=\"4\" data-block-id=\"99725d9\"><style>.stk-99725d9-container{margin-top:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:0px !important;padding-top:25px !important;padding-right:25px !important;padding-bottom:25px !important;padding-left:25px !important;}.stk-99725d9 {box-shadow:0px 5px 5px 0px #b0b5c11a !important;border-style:solid !important;border-color:var(--theme-palette-color-5, #edeff2) !important;}<\/style><div class=\"stk-column-wrapper stk-block-column__content stk-container stk-99725d9-container stk--no-background stk--no-padding\"><div class=\"stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks stk-99725d9-inner-blocks\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-label stk-block-icon-label stk-block stk-8f0d8e2\" data-block-id=\"8f0d8e2\"><div class=\"stk-row stk-inner-blocks stk-block-content\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-042eaaa\" id=\"do-i-have-to-be-especially-stretchy\" data-block-id=\"042eaaa\"><style>.stk-042eaaa .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:17px !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-042eaaa .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:17px !important;}}<\/style><h5 class=\"stk-block-heading__text\">Do I have to be especially stretchy?<\/h5><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon stk-block-icon stk-block stk-f3a50d1\" data-block-id=\"f3a50d1\"><style>.stk-f3a50d1 .stk--svg-wrapper .stk--inner-svg svg:last-child{height:13px !important;width:13px !important;}.stk-f3a50d1 .stk--svg-wrapper .stk--inner-svg svg:last-child, .stk-f3a50d1 .stk--svg-wrapper .stk--inner-svg svg:last-child :is(g, path, rect, polygon, ellipse){fill:var(--theme-palette-color-4, #111518) !important;}<\/style><span class=\"stk--svg-wrapper\"><div class=\"stk--inner-svg\"><svg style=\"height:0;width:0\"><defs><linearGradient id=\"linear-gradient-f3a50d1\" x1=\"0\" x2=\"100%\" y1=\"0\" y2=\"0\"><stop offset=\"0%\" style=\"stop-opacity:1;stop-color:var(--linear-gradient-f-3-a-50-d-1-color-1)\"><\/stop><stop offset=\"100%\" style=\"stop-opacity:1;stop-color:var(--linear-gradient-f-3-a-50-d-1-color-2)\"><\/stop><\/linearGradient><\/defs><\/svg><svg data-prefix=\"fas\" data-icon=\"chevron-down\" class=\"svg-inline--fa fa-chevron-down fa-w-14\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 448 512\" aria-hidden=\"true\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\"><path fill=\"currentColor\" d=\"M207.029 381.476L12.686 187.132c-9.373-9.373-9.373-24.569 0-33.941l22.667-22.667c9.357-9.357 24.522-9.375 33.901-.04L224 284.505l154.745-154.021c9.379-9.335 24.544-9.317 33.901.04l22.667 22.667c9.373 9.373 9.373 24.569 0 33.941L240.971 381.476c-9.373 9.372-24.569 9.372-33.942 0z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/div><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><\/summary>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-column stk-block-column stk-column stk-block stk-15623e8 stk-block-accordion__content\" data-v=\"4\" data-block-id=\"15623e8\"><style>.stk-15623e8-container{margin-top:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:0px !important;padding-top:35px !important;padding-right:35px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:35px !important;}<\/style><div class=\"stk-column-wrapper stk-block-column__content stk-container stk-15623e8-container stk--no-background stk--no-padding\"><div class=\"stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks stk-15623e8-inner-blocks\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No. The body adapts, that&#8217;s training. Anyone who gets four fingers in the first time is on a good path. It can take weeks or months to reach the whole hand \u2013 or it never quite works, and that&#8217;s okay too.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<\/details>\n\n\n\n<details class=\"wp-block-stackable-accordion stk-block-accordion stk-inner-blocks stk-block-content stk--single-open stk-block stk-dc40e38\" data-block-id=\"dc40e38\"><style>.stk-dc40e38 {margin-bottom:35px !important;}<\/style>\n<summary class=\"wp-block-stackable-column stk-block-column stk-column stk-block stk-1157cab stk--container-small stk-block-accordion__heading\" data-v=\"4\" data-block-id=\"1157cab\"><style>.stk-1157cab-container{margin-top:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:0px !important;padding-top:25px !important;padding-right:25px !important;padding-bottom:25px !important;padding-left:25px !important;}.stk-1157cab {box-shadow:0px 5px 5px 0px #b0b5c11a !important;border-style:solid !important;border-color:var(--theme-palette-color-5, #edeff2) !important;}<\/style><div class=\"stk-column-wrapper stk-block-column__content stk-container stk-1157cab-container stk--no-background stk--no-padding\"><div class=\"stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks stk-1157cab-inner-blocks\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-label stk-block-icon-label stk-block stk-9f4ad62\" data-block-id=\"9f4ad62\"><div class=\"stk-row stk-inner-blocks stk-block-content\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-3cd3bb1\" id=\"can-i-learn-to-fist-alone\" data-block-id=\"3cd3bb1\"><style>.stk-3cd3bb1 .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:17px !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-3cd3bb1 .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:17px !important;}}<\/style><h5 class=\"stk-block-heading__text\">Can I learn to fist alone?<\/h5><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon stk-block-icon stk-block stk-6a41a9b\" data-block-id=\"6a41a9b\"><style>.stk-6a41a9b .stk--svg-wrapper .stk--inner-svg svg:last-child{height:13px !important;width:13px !important;}.stk-6a41a9b .stk--svg-wrapper .stk--inner-svg svg:last-child, .stk-6a41a9b .stk--svg-wrapper .stk--inner-svg svg:last-child :is(g, path, rect, polygon, ellipse){fill:var(--theme-palette-color-4, #111518) !important;}<\/style><span class=\"stk--svg-wrapper\"><div class=\"stk--inner-svg\"><svg style=\"height:0;width:0\"><defs><linearGradient id=\"linear-gradient-6a41a9b\" x1=\"0\" x2=\"100%\" y1=\"0\" y2=\"0\"><stop offset=\"0%\" style=\"stop-opacity:1;stop-color:var(--linear-gradient-6-a-41-a-9-b-color-1)\"><\/stop><stop offset=\"100%\" style=\"stop-opacity:1;stop-color:var(--linear-gradient-6-a-41-a-9-b-color-2)\"><\/stop><\/linearGradient><\/defs><\/svg><svg data-prefix=\"fas\" data-icon=\"chevron-down\" class=\"svg-inline--fa fa-chevron-down fa-w-14\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 448 512\" aria-hidden=\"true\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\"><path fill=\"currentColor\" d=\"M207.029 381.476L12.686 187.132c-9.373-9.373-9.373-24.569 0-33.941l22.667-22.667c9.357-9.357 24.522-9.375 33.901-.04L224 284.505l154.745-154.021c9.379-9.335 24.544-9.317 33.901.04l22.667 22.667c9.373 9.373 9.373 24.569 0 33.941L240.971 381.476c-9.373 9.372-24.569 9.372-33.942 0z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/div><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><\/summary>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-column stk-block-column stk-column stk-block stk-a8b6d5e stk-block-accordion__content\" data-v=\"4\" data-block-id=\"a8b6d5e\"><style>.stk-a8b6d5e-container{margin-top:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:0px !important;padding-top:35px !important;padding-right:35px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:35px !important;}<\/style><div class=\"stk-column-wrapper stk-block-column__content stk-container stk-a8b6d5e-container stk--no-background stk--no-padding\"><div class=\"stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks stk-a8b6d5e-inner-blocks\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Self-fisting is possible but unsuitable for beginners. You have the wrong angle and can&#8217;t relax because you&#8217;re active yourself. Better to learn it with an experienced partner and try self-fisting later.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<\/details>\n\n\n\n<details class=\"wp-block-stackable-accordion stk-block-accordion stk-inner-blocks stk-block-content stk--single-open stk-block stk-fbce595\" data-block-id=\"fbce595\"><style>.stk-fbce595 {margin-bottom:35px !important;}<\/style>\n<summary class=\"wp-block-stackable-column stk-block-column stk-column stk-block stk-969b0dd stk--container-small stk-block-accordion__heading\" data-v=\"4\" data-block-id=\"969b0dd\"><style>.stk-969b0dd-container{margin-top:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:0px !important;padding-top:25px !important;padding-right:25px !important;padding-bottom:25px !important;padding-left:25px !important;}.stk-969b0dd {box-shadow:0px 5px 5px 0px #b0b5c11a !important;border-style:solid !important;border-color:var(--theme-palette-color-5, #edeff2) !important;}<\/style><div class=\"stk-column-wrapper stk-block-column__content stk-container stk-969b0dd-container stk--no-background stk--no-padding\"><div class=\"stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks stk-969b0dd-inner-blocks\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-label stk-block-icon-label stk-block stk-be9a701\" data-block-id=\"be9a701\"><div class=\"stk-row stk-inner-blocks stk-block-content\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-99a0d05\" id=\"how-long-does-the-first-session-take\" data-block-id=\"99a0d05\"><style>.stk-99a0d05 .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:17px !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-99a0d05 .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:17px !important;}}<\/style><h5 class=\"stk-block-heading__text\">How long does the first session take?<\/h5><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon stk-block-icon stk-block stk-61ff983\" data-block-id=\"61ff983\"><style>.stk-61ff983 .stk--svg-wrapper .stk--inner-svg svg:last-child{height:13px !important;width:13px !important;}.stk-61ff983 .stk--svg-wrapper .stk--inner-svg svg:last-child, .stk-61ff983 .stk--svg-wrapper .stk--inner-svg svg:last-child :is(g, path, rect, polygon, ellipse){fill:var(--theme-palette-color-4, #111518) !important;}<\/style><span class=\"stk--svg-wrapper\"><div class=\"stk--inner-svg\"><svg style=\"height:0;width:0\"><defs><linearGradient id=\"linear-gradient-61ff983\" x1=\"0\" x2=\"100%\" y1=\"0\" y2=\"0\"><stop offset=\"0%\" style=\"stop-opacity:1;stop-color:var(--linear-gradient-61-ff-983-color-1)\"><\/stop><stop offset=\"100%\" style=\"stop-opacity:1;stop-color:var(--linear-gradient-61-ff-983-color-2)\"><\/stop><\/linearGradient><\/defs><\/svg><svg data-prefix=\"fas\" data-icon=\"chevron-down\" class=\"svg-inline--fa fa-chevron-down fa-w-14\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 448 512\" aria-hidden=\"true\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\"><path fill=\"currentColor\" d=\"M207.029 381.476L12.686 187.132c-9.373-9.373-9.373-24.569 0-33.941l22.667-22.667c9.357-9.357 24.522-9.375 33.901-.04L224 284.505l154.745-154.021c9.379-9.335 24.544-9.317 33.901.04l22.667 22.667c9.373 9.373 9.373 24.569 0 33.941L240.971 381.476c-9.373 9.372-24.569 9.372-33.942 0z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/div><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><\/summary>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-column stk-block-column stk-column stk-block stk-a27cd43 stk-block-accordion__content\" data-v=\"4\" data-block-id=\"a27cd43\"><style>.stk-a27cd43-container{margin-top:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:0px !important;padding-top:35px !important;padding-right:35px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:35px !important;}<\/style><div class=\"stk-column-wrapper stk-block-column__content stk-container stk-a27cd43-container stk--no-background stk--no-padding\"><div class=\"stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks stk-a27cd43-inner-blocks\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Plan two to three hours, of which maybe 15\u201330 minutes is actual penetration. The rest is warming up and aftercare.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<\/details>\n\n\n\n<details class=\"wp-block-stackable-accordion stk-block-accordion stk-inner-blocks stk-block-content stk--single-open stk-block stk-4e09633\" data-block-id=\"4e09633\"><style>.stk-4e09633 {margin-bottom:35px !important;}<\/style>\n<summary class=\"wp-block-stackable-column stk-block-column stk-column stk-block stk-fd7e277 stk--container-small stk-block-accordion__heading\" data-v=\"4\" data-block-id=\"fd7e277\"><style>.stk-fd7e277-container{margin-top:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:0px !important;padding-top:25px !important;padding-right:25px !important;padding-bottom:25px !important;padding-left:25px !important;}.stk-fd7e277 {box-shadow:0px 5px 5px 0px #b0b5c11a !important;border-style:solid !important;border-color:var(--theme-palette-color-5, #edeff2) !important;}<\/style><div class=\"stk-column-wrapper stk-block-column__content stk-container stk-fd7e277-container stk--no-background stk--no-padding\"><div class=\"stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks stk-fd7e277-inner-blocks\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-label stk-block-icon-label stk-block stk-fc39f6d\" data-block-id=\"fc39f6d\"><div class=\"stk-row stk-inner-blocks stk-block-content\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-97d746a\" id=\"do-i-need-poppers\" data-block-id=\"97d746a\"><style>.stk-97d746a .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:17px !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-97d746a .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:17px !important;}}<\/style><h5 class=\"stk-block-heading__text\">Do I need poppers?<\/h5><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon stk-block-icon stk-block stk-4a9563e\" data-block-id=\"4a9563e\"><style>.stk-4a9563e .stk--svg-wrapper .stk--inner-svg svg:last-child{height:13px !important;width:13px !important;}.stk-4a9563e .stk--svg-wrapper .stk--inner-svg svg:last-child, .stk-4a9563e .stk--svg-wrapper .stk--inner-svg svg:last-child :is(g, path, rect, polygon, ellipse){fill:var(--theme-palette-color-4, #111518) !important;}<\/style><span class=\"stk--svg-wrapper\"><div class=\"stk--inner-svg\"><svg style=\"height:0;width:0\"><defs><linearGradient id=\"linear-gradient-4a9563e\" x1=\"0\" x2=\"100%\" y1=\"0\" y2=\"0\"><stop offset=\"0%\" style=\"stop-opacity:1;stop-color:var(--linear-gradient-4-a-9563-e-color-1)\"><\/stop><stop offset=\"100%\" style=\"stop-opacity:1;stop-color:var(--linear-gradient-4-a-9563-e-color-2)\"><\/stop><\/linearGradient><\/defs><\/svg><svg data-prefix=\"fas\" data-icon=\"chevron-down\" class=\"svg-inline--fa fa-chevron-down fa-w-14\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 448 512\" aria-hidden=\"true\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\"><path fill=\"currentColor\" d=\"M207.029 381.476L12.686 187.132c-9.373-9.373-9.373-24.569 0-33.941l22.667-22.667c9.357-9.357 24.522-9.375 33.901-.04L224 284.505l154.745-154.021c9.379-9.335 24.544-9.317 33.901.04l22.667 22.667c9.373 9.373 9.373 24.569 0 33.941L240.971 381.476c-9.373 9.372-24.569 9.372-33.942 0z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/div><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><\/summary>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-column stk-block-column stk-column stk-block stk-1243e7a stk-block-accordion__content\" data-v=\"4\" data-block-id=\"1243e7a\"><style>.stk-1243e7a-container{margin-top:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:0px !important;padding-top:35px !important;padding-right:35px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:35px !important;}<\/style><div class=\"stk-column-wrapper stk-block-column__content stk-container stk-1243e7a-container stk--no-background stk--no-padding\"><div class=\"stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks stk-1243e7a-inner-blocks\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poppers relax the smooth muscle and are often used in the scene. They&#8217;re not a must. If you use them: small amounts, not continuously, and never together with erectile-dysfunction medication (life-threatening drop in blood pressure). Anyone with heart problems or certain eye conditions should leave them alone.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<\/details>\n\n\n\n<details class=\"wp-block-stackable-accordion stk-block-accordion stk-inner-blocks stk-block-content stk--single-open stk-block stk-35e3d87\" data-block-id=\"35e3d87\"><style>.stk-35e3d87 {margin-bottom:35px !important;}<\/style>\n<summary class=\"wp-block-stackable-column stk-block-column stk-column stk-block stk-f271a34 stk--container-small stk-block-accordion__heading\" data-v=\"4\" data-block-id=\"f271a34\"><style>.stk-f271a34-container{margin-top:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:0px !important;padding-top:25px !important;padding-right:25px !important;padding-bottom:25px !important;padding-left:25px !important;}.stk-f271a34 {box-shadow:0px 5px 5px 0px #b0b5c11a !important;border-style:solid !important;border-color:var(--theme-palette-color-5, #edeff2) !important;}<\/style><div class=\"stk-column-wrapper stk-block-column__content stk-container stk-f271a34-container stk--no-background stk--no-padding\"><div class=\"stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks stk-f271a34-inner-blocks\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-label stk-block-icon-label stk-block stk-4a9fe56\" data-block-id=\"4a9fe56\"><div class=\"stk-row stk-inner-blocks stk-block-content\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-7a37007\" id=\"do-i-need-special-toys-to-prepare\" data-block-id=\"7a37007\"><style>.stk-7a37007 .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:17px !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-7a37007 .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:17px !important;}}<\/style><h5 class=\"stk-block-heading__text\">Do I need special toys to prepare?<\/h5><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon stk-block-icon stk-block stk-cec3887\" data-block-id=\"cec3887\"><style>.stk-cec3887 .stk--svg-wrapper .stk--inner-svg svg:last-child{height:13px !important;width:13px !important;}.stk-cec3887 .stk--svg-wrapper .stk--inner-svg svg:last-child, .stk-cec3887 .stk--svg-wrapper .stk--inner-svg svg:last-child :is(g, path, rect, polygon, ellipse){fill:var(--theme-palette-color-4, #111518) !important;}<\/style><span class=\"stk--svg-wrapper\"><div class=\"stk--inner-svg\"><svg style=\"height:0;width:0\"><defs><linearGradient id=\"linear-gradient-cec3887\" x1=\"0\" x2=\"100%\" y1=\"0\" y2=\"0\"><stop offset=\"0%\" style=\"stop-opacity:1;stop-color:var(--linear-gradient-cec-3887-color-1)\"><\/stop><stop offset=\"100%\" style=\"stop-opacity:1;stop-color:var(--linear-gradient-cec-3887-color-2)\"><\/stop><\/linearGradient><\/defs><\/svg><svg data-prefix=\"fas\" data-icon=\"chevron-down\" class=\"svg-inline--fa fa-chevron-down fa-w-14\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 448 512\" aria-hidden=\"true\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\"><path fill=\"currentColor\" d=\"M207.029 381.476L12.686 187.132c-9.373-9.373-9.373-24.569 0-33.941l22.667-22.667c9.357-9.357 24.522-9.375 33.901-.04L224 284.505l154.745-154.021c9.379-9.335 24.544-9.317 33.901.04l22.667 22.667c9.373 9.373 9.373 24.569 0 33.941L240.971 381.476c-9.373 9.372-24.569 9.372-33.942 0z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/div><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><\/summary>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-column stk-block-column stk-column stk-block stk-e42f3db stk-block-accordion__content\" data-v=\"4\" data-block-id=\"e42f3db\"><style>.stk-e42f3db-container{margin-top:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:0px !important;padding-top:35px !important;padding-right:35px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:35px !important;}<\/style><div class=\"stk-column-wrapper stk-block-column__content stk-container stk-e42f3db-container stk--no-background stk--no-padding\"><div class=\"stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks stk-e42f3db-inner-blocks\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Helpful, not necessary. A medium plug (diameter 4\u20135 cm) and a larger dildo make stretching over several weeks easier. Don&#8217;t invest in the biggest toy in the shop \u2013 start small. Nobody ever started a marathon by taking on all 42 kilometres at once.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<\/details>\n\n\n\n<details class=\"wp-block-stackable-accordion stk-block-accordion stk-inner-blocks stk-block-content stk--single-open stk-block stk-d295249\" data-block-id=\"d295249\"><style>.stk-d295249 {margin-bottom:35px !important;}<\/style>\n<summary class=\"wp-block-stackable-column stk-block-column stk-column stk-block stk-5c2a9b8 stk--container-small stk-block-accordion__heading\" data-v=\"4\" data-block-id=\"5c2a9b8\"><style>.stk-5c2a9b8-container{margin-top:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:0px !important;padding-top:25px !important;padding-right:25px !important;padding-bottom:25px !important;padding-left:25px !important;}.stk-5c2a9b8 {box-shadow:0px 5px 5px 0px #b0b5c11a !important;border-style:solid !important;border-color:var(--theme-palette-color-5, #edeff2) !important;}<\/style><div class=\"stk-column-wrapper stk-block-column__content stk-container stk-5c2a9b8-container stk--no-background stk--no-padding\"><div class=\"stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks stk-5c2a9b8-inner-blocks\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-label stk-block-icon-label stk-block stk-9c4f961\" data-block-id=\"9c4f961\"><div class=\"stk-row stk-inner-blocks stk-block-content\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-3f92133\" id=\"how-often-can-i-fist\" data-block-id=\"3f92133\"><style>.stk-3f92133 .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:17px !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-3f92133 .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:17px !important;}}<\/style><h5 class=\"stk-block-heading__text\">How often can I fist?<\/h5><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon stk-block-icon stk-block stk-70cee0f\" data-block-id=\"70cee0f\"><style>.stk-70cee0f .stk--svg-wrapper .stk--inner-svg svg:last-child{height:13px !important;width:13px !important;}.stk-70cee0f .stk--svg-wrapper .stk--inner-svg svg:last-child, .stk-70cee0f .stk--svg-wrapper .stk--inner-svg svg:last-child :is(g, path, rect, polygon, ellipse){fill:var(--theme-palette-color-4, #111518) !important;}<\/style><span class=\"stk--svg-wrapper\"><div class=\"stk--inner-svg\"><svg style=\"height:0;width:0\"><defs><linearGradient id=\"linear-gradient-70cee0f\" x1=\"0\" x2=\"100%\" y1=\"0\" y2=\"0\"><stop offset=\"0%\" style=\"stop-opacity:1;stop-color:var(--linear-gradient-70-cee-0-f-color-1)\"><\/stop><stop offset=\"100%\" style=\"stop-opacity:1;stop-color:var(--linear-gradient-70-cee-0-f-color-2)\"><\/stop><\/linearGradient><\/defs><\/svg><svg data-prefix=\"fas\" data-icon=\"chevron-down\" class=\"svg-inline--fa fa-chevron-down fa-w-14\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 448 512\" aria-hidden=\"true\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\"><path fill=\"currentColor\" d=\"M207.029 381.476L12.686 187.132c-9.373-9.373-9.373-24.569 0-33.941l22.667-22.667c9.357-9.357 24.522-9.375 33.901-.04L224 284.505l154.745-154.021c9.379-9.335 24.544-9.317 33.901.04l22.667 22.667c9.373 9.373 9.373 24.569 0 33.941L240.971 381.476c-9.373 9.372-24.569 9.372-33.942 0z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/div><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><\/summary>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-column stk-block-column stk-column stk-block stk-461c03d stk-block-accordion__content\" data-v=\"4\" data-block-id=\"461c03d\"><style>.stk-461c03d-container{margin-top:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:0px !important;padding-top:35px !important;padding-right:35px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:35px !important;}<\/style><div class=\"stk-column-wrapper stk-block-column__content stk-container stk-461c03d-container stk--no-background stk--no-padding\"><div class=\"stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks stk-461c03d-inner-blocks\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No more than once or twice a week, ideally with at least three days&#8217; break in between. The anus needs time to recover. Anyone who fists daily risks chronic irritation and long-term problems.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<\/details>\n\n\n\n<details class=\"wp-block-stackable-accordion stk-block-accordion stk-inner-blocks stk-block-content stk--single-open stk-block stk-00776ee\" data-block-id=\"00776ee\"><style>.stk-00776ee {margin-bottom:35px !important;}<\/style>\n<summary class=\"wp-block-stackable-column stk-block-column stk-column stk-block stk-8c1ca10 stk--container-small stk-block-accordion__heading\" data-v=\"4\" data-block-id=\"8c1ca10\"><style>.stk-8c1ca10-container{margin-top:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:0px !important;padding-top:25px !important;padding-right:25px !important;padding-bottom:25px !important;padding-left:25px !important;}.stk-8c1ca10 {box-shadow:0px 5px 5px 0px #b0b5c11a !important;border-style:solid !important;border-color:var(--theme-palette-color-5, #edeff2) !important;}<\/style><div class=\"stk-column-wrapper stk-block-column__content stk-container stk-8c1ca10-container stk--no-background stk--no-padding\"><div class=\"stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks stk-8c1ca10-inner-blocks\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-label stk-block-icon-label stk-block stk-81b0ba6\" data-block-id=\"81b0ba6\"><div class=\"stk-row stk-inner-blocks stk-block-content\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-7a551f2\" id=\"which-position-is-best-for-beginners\" data-block-id=\"7a551f2\"><style>.stk-7a551f2 .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:17px !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-7a551f2 .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:17px !important;}}<\/style><h5 class=\"stk-block-heading__text\">Which position is best for beginners?<\/h5><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon stk-block-icon stk-block stk-0804874\" data-block-id=\"0804874\"><style>.stk-0804874 .stk--svg-wrapper .stk--inner-svg svg:last-child{height:13px !important;width:13px !important;}.stk-0804874 .stk--svg-wrapper .stk--inner-svg svg:last-child, .stk-0804874 .stk--svg-wrapper .stk--inner-svg svg:last-child :is(g, path, rect, polygon, ellipse){fill:var(--theme-palette-color-4, #111518) !important;}<\/style><span class=\"stk--svg-wrapper\"><div class=\"stk--inner-svg\"><svg style=\"height:0;width:0\"><defs><linearGradient id=\"linear-gradient-0804874\" x1=\"0\" x2=\"100%\" y1=\"0\" y2=\"0\"><stop offset=\"0%\" style=\"stop-opacity:1;stop-color:var(--linear-gradient-0804874-color-1)\"><\/stop><stop offset=\"100%\" style=\"stop-opacity:1;stop-color:var(--linear-gradient-0804874-color-2)\"><\/stop><\/linearGradient><\/defs><\/svg><svg data-prefix=\"fas\" data-icon=\"chevron-down\" class=\"svg-inline--fa fa-chevron-down fa-w-14\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 448 512\" aria-hidden=\"true\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\"><path fill=\"currentColor\" d=\"M207.029 381.476L12.686 187.132c-9.373-9.373-9.373-24.569 0-33.941l22.667-22.667c9.357-9.357 24.522-9.375 33.901-.04L224 284.505l154.745-154.021c9.379-9.335 24.544-9.317 33.901.04l22.667 22.667c9.373 9.373 9.373 24.569 0 33.941L240.971 381.476c-9.373 9.372-24.569 9.372-33.942 0z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/div><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><\/summary>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-column stk-block-column stk-column stk-block stk-635729d stk-block-accordion__content\" data-v=\"4\" data-block-id=\"635729d\"><style>.stk-635729d-container{margin-top:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:0px !important;padding-top:35px !important;padding-right:35px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:35px !important;}<\/style><div class=\"stk-column-wrapper stk-block-column__content stk-container stk-635729d-container stk--no-background stk--no-padding\"><div class=\"stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks stk-635729d-inner-blocks\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">On the back with a pillow under the pelvis. The bottom lies relaxed, the fister has the best view and access, and you have eye contact for communication. Other positions come later.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<\/details>\n\n\n\n<details class=\"wp-block-stackable-accordion stk-block-accordion stk-inner-blocks stk-block-content stk--single-open stk-block stk-e9387b6\" data-block-id=\"e9387b6\"><style>.stk-e9387b6 {margin-bottom:35px !important;}<\/style>\n<summary class=\"wp-block-stackable-column stk-block-column stk-column stk-block stk-6f7d1ee stk--container-small stk-block-accordion__heading\" data-v=\"4\" data-block-id=\"6f7d1ee\"><style>.stk-6f7d1ee-container{margin-top:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:0px !important;padding-top:25px !important;padding-right:25px !important;padding-bottom:25px !important;padding-left:25px !important;}.stk-6f7d1ee {box-shadow:0px 5px 5px 0px #b0b5c11a !important;border-style:solid !important;border-color:var(--theme-palette-color-5, #edeff2) !important;}<\/style><div class=\"stk-column-wrapper stk-block-column__content stk-container stk-6f7d1ee-container stk--no-background stk--no-padding\"><div class=\"stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks stk-6f7d1ee-inner-blocks\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-label stk-block-icon-label stk-block stk-5e68ff0\" data-block-id=\"5e68ff0\"><div class=\"stk-row stk-inner-blocks stk-block-content\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-dd17e5e\" id=\"what-about-hepatitis-c\" data-block-id=\"dd17e5e\"><style>.stk-dd17e5e .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:17px !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-dd17e5e .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:17px !important;}}<\/style><h5 class=\"stk-block-heading__text\">What about hepatitis C?<\/h5><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon stk-block-icon stk-block stk-166fce8\" data-block-id=\"166fce8\"><style>.stk-166fce8 .stk--svg-wrapper .stk--inner-svg svg:last-child{height:13px !important;width:13px !important;}.stk-166fce8 .stk--svg-wrapper .stk--inner-svg svg:last-child, .stk-166fce8 .stk--svg-wrapper .stk--inner-svg svg:last-child :is(g, path, rect, polygon, ellipse){fill:var(--theme-palette-color-4, #111518) !important;}<\/style><span class=\"stk--svg-wrapper\"><div class=\"stk--inner-svg\"><svg style=\"height:0;width:0\"><defs><linearGradient id=\"linear-gradient-166fce8\" x1=\"0\" x2=\"100%\" y1=\"0\" y2=\"0\"><stop offset=\"0%\" style=\"stop-opacity:1;stop-color:var(--linear-gradient-166-fce-8-color-1)\"><\/stop><stop offset=\"100%\" style=\"stop-opacity:1;stop-color:var(--linear-gradient-166-fce-8-color-2)\"><\/stop><\/linearGradient><\/defs><\/svg><svg data-prefix=\"fas\" data-icon=\"chevron-down\" class=\"svg-inline--fa fa-chevron-down fa-w-14\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 448 512\" aria-hidden=\"true\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\"><path fill=\"currentColor\" d=\"M207.029 381.476L12.686 187.132c-9.373-9.373-9.373-24.569 0-33.941l22.667-22.667c9.357-9.357 24.522-9.375 33.901-.04L224 284.505l154.745-154.021c9.379-9.335 24.544-9.317 33.901.04l22.667 22.667c9.373 9.373 9.373 24.569 0 33.941L240.971 381.476c-9.373 9.372-24.569 9.372-33.942 0z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/div><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><\/summary>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-column stk-block-column stk-column stk-block stk-dfce283 stk-block-accordion__content\" data-v=\"4\" data-block-id=\"dfce283\"><style>.stk-dfce283-container{margin-top:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:0px !important;padding-top:35px !important;padding-right:35px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:35px !important;}<\/style><div class=\"stk-column-wrapper stk-block-column__content stk-container stk-dfce283-container stk--no-background stk--no-padding\"><div class=\"stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks stk-dfce283-inner-blocks\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hepatitis C is the reason gloves and individual lube containers per person should be mandatory. The virus is transmitted via tiny amounts of blood you can&#8217;t see. In Berlin and other big cities there are regular hep C waves in the fisting scene. Get tested at least once a year. More under <a href=\"https:\/\/fist.club\/en\/fisting-hepatitis\/\">Fisting &amp; Hepatitis<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<\/details>\n\n\n\n<details class=\"wp-block-stackable-accordion stk-block-accordion stk-inner-blocks stk-block-content stk--single-open stk-block stk-99fd6af\" data-block-id=\"99fd6af\"><style>.stk-99fd6af {margin-bottom:35px !important;}<\/style>\n<summary class=\"wp-block-stackable-column stk-block-column stk-column stk-block stk-776b7ac stk--container-small stk-block-accordion__heading\" data-v=\"4\" data-block-id=\"776b7ac\"><style>.stk-776b7ac-container{margin-top:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:0px !important;padding-top:25px !important;padding-right:25px !important;padding-bottom:25px !important;padding-left:25px !important;}.stk-776b7ac {box-shadow:0px 5px 5px 0px #b0b5c11a !important;border-style:solid !important;border-color:var(--theme-palette-color-5, #edeff2) !important;}<\/style><div class=\"stk-column-wrapper stk-block-column__content stk-container stk-776b7ac-container stk--no-background stk--no-padding\"><div class=\"stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks stk-776b7ac-inner-blocks\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-label stk-block-icon-label stk-block stk-cd3b737\" data-block-id=\"cd3b737\"><div class=\"stk-row stk-inner-blocks stk-block-content\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-d5e49e7\" id=\"where-can-i-attend-workshops\" data-block-id=\"d5e49e7\"><style>.stk-d5e49e7 .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:17px !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-d5e49e7 .stk-block-heading__text{font-size:17px !important;}}<\/style><h5 class=\"stk-block-heading__text\">Where can I attend workshops?<\/h5><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon stk-block-icon stk-block stk-7e85a07\" data-block-id=\"7e85a07\"><style>.stk-7e85a07 .stk--svg-wrapper .stk--inner-svg svg:last-child{height:13px !important;width:13px !important;}.stk-7e85a07 .stk--svg-wrapper .stk--inner-svg svg:last-child, .stk-7e85a07 .stk--svg-wrapper .stk--inner-svg svg:last-child :is(g, path, rect, polygon, ellipse){fill:var(--theme-palette-color-4, #111518) !important;}<\/style><span class=\"stk--svg-wrapper\"><div class=\"stk--inner-svg\"><svg style=\"height:0;width:0\"><defs><linearGradient id=\"linear-gradient-7e85a07\" x1=\"0\" x2=\"100%\" y1=\"0\" y2=\"0\"><stop offset=\"0%\" style=\"stop-opacity:1;stop-color:var(--linear-gradient-7-e-85-a-07-color-1)\"><\/stop><stop offset=\"100%\" style=\"stop-opacity:1;stop-color:var(--linear-gradient-7-e-85-a-07-color-2)\"><\/stop><\/linearGradient><\/defs><\/svg><svg data-prefix=\"fas\" data-icon=\"chevron-down\" class=\"svg-inline--fa fa-chevron-down fa-w-14\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 448 512\" aria-hidden=\"true\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\"><path fill=\"currentColor\" d=\"M207.029 381.476L12.686 187.132c-9.373-9.373-9.373-24.569 0-33.941l22.667-22.667c9.357-9.357 24.522-9.375 33.901-.04L224 284.505l154.745-154.021c9.379-9.335 24.544-9.317 33.901.04l22.667 22.667c9.373 9.373 9.373 24.569 0 33.941L240.971 381.476c-9.373 9.372-24.569 9.372-33.942 0z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/div><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><\/summary>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-column stk-block-column stk-column stk-block stk-7b2cede stk-block-accordion__content\" data-v=\"4\" data-block-id=\"7b2cede\"><style>.stk-7b2cede-container{margin-top:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:0px !important;padding-top:35px !important;padding-right:35px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:35px !important;}<\/style><div class=\"stk-column-wrapper stk-block-column__content stk-container stk-7b2cede-container stk--no-background stk--no-padding\"><div class=\"stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks stk-7b2cede-inner-blocks\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We run regular workshops in various cities across Germany and Europe. Dates are on our <a href=\"https:\/\/fist.club\/en\/fisting-school-workshops-seminars\/\">Fisting School<\/a> page and in our <a href=\"https:\/\/fist.club\/en\/events-2\/\">events calendar<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<\/details>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-spacer stk-block-spacer stk--no-padding stk-block stk-66925b9\" data-block-id=\"66925b9\"><style>.stk-66925b9 {height:0px !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-66925b9 {height:90px !important;}}<\/style><\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr>\r\n\r\n<h2>About the authors<\/h2>\r\n\r\n<p>This guide was put together by the editorial team at <strong>fist.club<\/strong> \u2013 the online magazine and knowledge portal of Fist Club Europe e.V., an association based in Berlin. The content is based on practical experience from our workshops, exchanges with workshop leaders and community members, and on medical literature. Fist Club Europe e.V. runs regular workshops, events and community meetings and has worked with sexual-health stakeholders for years.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<p>More about us: <a href=\"https:\/\/fist.club\/en\/the-association\/\">The Association<\/a> \u00b7 <a href=\"https:\/\/fist.club\/en\/fisting-school-workshops-seminars\/\">Workshops &amp; Seminars<\/a> \u00b7 <a href=\"https:\/\/fist.club\/en\/become-a-member\/\">Become a member<\/a><\/p>\r\n\r\n<hr>\r\n\r\n<p><em>This guide is no substitute for medical advice. In case of pain, bleeding or uncertainty: please see a doctor. For questions about practice: drop by our <a href=\"https:\/\/fist.club\/en\/fisting-school-workshops-seminars\/\">workshops<\/a>, or read on in our <a href=\"https:\/\/fist.club\/en\/fisting-glossary-terminology\/\">glossary<\/a>, our <a href=\"https:\/\/fist.club\/en\/testimonials-stories\/\">experience reports<\/a>, under <a href=\"https:\/\/fist.club\/en\/hygiene-preparation\/\">Hygiene &amp; Preparation<\/a> and under <a href=\"https:\/\/fist.club\/en\/safer-fisting-general-tips\/\">Safer Fisting<\/a>. 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